Friday, November 12, 2010

At work, people are often shooting the breeze with each other. Should I join these conversations or stay out?

I'm a natural introvert and rarely talk about non-work issues during the workday. I get the feeling the people think I'm too serious. I want to fit in. I often ask people one-on-one how they're doing, how their weekend was, etc., but nobody ever asks me. However, there are sometimes group conversations going on in the office that I'd like to participate in. Unfortunately, I don't know how to ';butt in,'; or if it is even appropriate. For someone who is a natural introvert working at a company full of extroverts (a company where even the boss often talks nonchalantly about his personal life), how can I better fit in with the group? Any help is much appreciated. Thanks.At work, people are often shooting the breeze with each other. Should I join these conversations or stay out?
start off with short opinionated answers. (that's what I would do also,

I feel the same way, I saw that same article, ) if they want you to elaborate, then they will ask you . I have found though, sometimes it's better not to be a part of the crowd. Don't ever forget the quote:

';Do not follow where the path may lead- go instead where there is no path and leave a trail';At work, people are often shooting the breeze with each other. Should I join these conversations or stay out?
You should join in on occasion, but if you do it all the time, your boss will think you are not doing your job.

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