How can you work with people that don't like you?

I'm stuck in a group with a girl that doesn't like me for no reason. I have never done anything to her.She always argues with me whenever I make a suggestion and says that it's stupid and I should follow her way.How can you work with people that don't like you?
it's best not to fight fire with fire. in other words, never argue back. take things calmly, and reason with her. depending on the type of group your in, have them also give their two cents. a group consists of everyone pitching in. it seems this person is a control freak, and you should not let something like that put you down. have others vote and come to a final proposal.How can you work with people that don't like you?
try to just get through it, alot of people dont like me for any reason but i dont let it get to me. everybody is not going to be friends with everyone. you have two choices; stand up to her or stay in the background and do things her way. i would highly suggest you stand up to her! shes not used to people standing up to her, she thinks people are afriad.. so you have to show her that your not going to take her crap! girls like her, who are bossy, are used to doing things there ways. confront her and tell her shes not the boss and everyone should contribute, trust me it will feel sooo good once you do it!
If other people have witnessed this that do like you, then privately ask their opinion about how to handle it. They may be able to give you insight as to why she is acting this way.

See if she does it in front of management. If they ignore it, then the problem is much bigger than her not liking you.

If there are other people around when she acts out, call her on it. Right there in front of everyone, calmly ask her if her problem is with what you are suggesting (then ask for specifics) or if it's with you personally (then ask for specifics). Don't give into dishing it back in the same way, it takes you to her level and then no one is in the right.

The best revenge is to out perform her in every way.
I did it for years. Coworkers are not your boss, so to a large degree you can ignore them. Liking other workers is not a requirement for gainful employment. If you focus on the job at hand, and follow company rules, time will pass and people and situations will change. People could get reassigned, work groups changed, the irritating people could grow up. Things can get much better (ok, and even worse) but if you focus on the job, you can tolerate the situation. Good luck.
usually ppl like that are jealous of you for some reason i worked in an office where ppl were jealous of my hair of all things i found this out much later when i ran into someone from there after leaving, my reply was are you serious? wow i feel sorry for you that you are such a shallow person.
Easy. Just work. Only talk to her when you have to. If you are in a group ask one of the other woman in the group avoid her unless you have no choice but to talk to her. On the job you get paid to do a job not like everyone. Everyone at some time in their life will have a co-worker that doesn't like them.
Follow her way? No way. She's not your boss, doesn't sign your paycheck or your Performance Evaluation.



Argues with your suggestions and says they're stupid? Quietly start documenting. She could take your suggestions and get credit for them, plus she's creating a hostile environment by arguing and demeaning you. You don't deserve this.



Good luck
A typical careerist bytch. Power mad.



But show up every day and do your job to the best of your ability. If she harrasses or humiliates you in front of your coworkers, confidentially contact Human Resources and launch a complaint.



Learn how the company works. Then sit back as comfortable as you can possibly get, and watch the stupid **** get just enough rope to hang herself with. That's what usually happens. If if does happen, and she blows it big time, MAKE SURE she doesn't use you for her toilet paper, which is something they're known to specialize in at a man's expense.



An alternative is to get another job, but beforewarned, feminine careerism is everywhere in the PC country we call America.
treat her the same way and then she will see what its like
Work is work, it doesn't matter if someone likes you or not, you were not hired for a popularity contest. You were hired to perform certain tasks, and people not liking you doesn't have anything to do with that. It always makes it more enjoyable to work in a more pleasant environment, but you just need to do what you were hired to do and not worry about her. However, if she calls you stupid, then you should report her to a supervisor or manager, that is illegal.
sounds like shes into u lol
I know its really hard, but I work with people that don't like me either.



I've just become real difficult to get along with, and give it right back to them. I'm not a pleasant person for him to deal with, and he has the personality of a rotted tree stump.