I assume that people that work in computer forensics have t look at these images when conducting an investigation. I mean they must have to look at it to know what the offending person has bee looking at.
Do you think that they have special training to block out the images as it would play on their mind. How do people who work in digital forensics cope with having to look at child porn?
Ever watch Law %26amp; Order SVU? They lose a part of their soul, but somebody has to do it to make sure the sickos get locked away.How do people who work in digital forensics cope with having to look at child porn?
sounds like its playing on yours???
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Sunday, November 21, 2010
How do you get over the fear of working hard & just losing what you work for?
How can a person who has worked hard %26amp; sacrificed so much but then lost it get back to work again. I am that person. I just can't care anymore. I was such a good person my whole life %26amp; now I just don't care. I would rather just charge my bills %26amp; relax. What is the answer to get back up %26amp; want to work again. I am so happy living as I am but the debt is mounting. I have watched how people in my country who have tons of money get away with everything %26amp; hard working people go out %26amp; build the country but end up with so may problems. I can not understand why anyone would choose to work hard. Enlighten me. Please don't criticize me, that is not answering my question. Some people have had horrible tradgedies %26amp; I am once so if you don't have an answer please just don't waste anyone's time.How do you get over the fear of working hard %26amp; just losing what you work for?
Well a famous prophet said, ';The first shall be last and the last shall be first.';
If you have it hard here than rejoice, you're treasures are in the next life or afterlife- if you do believe in one.
At times I wish my life was harder because having everything come by so easy can corrupt someone into greed/lust.
And once a person has greed they are forever held captive in the material world.
The Universe/God challenges the ones who have strength.
Do not buckle down but face the challenges and you will be thankful that you did.
Remember the saying ';When the road gets tough, the tough gets going.';
Also remember that your situation is better than someone elses.
Just being in America alone automatically makes you have a better life than people in third world countries.
So than be thankful for what you do have and embrace your challenges, for they build your character and strength.How do you get over the fear of working hard %26amp; just losing what you work for?
By getting rid of doership.
im afraid thats how life works the rich get richer and the poor get poorer im in a similar position, trustin God and he will pull u through, leave it all to him to handle, prayer!
Well a famous prophet said, ';The first shall be last and the last shall be first.';
If you have it hard here than rejoice, you're treasures are in the next life or afterlife- if you do believe in one.
At times I wish my life was harder because having everything come by so easy can corrupt someone into greed/lust.
And once a person has greed they are forever held captive in the material world.
The Universe/God challenges the ones who have strength.
Do not buckle down but face the challenges and you will be thankful that you did.
Remember the saying ';When the road gets tough, the tough gets going.';
Also remember that your situation is better than someone elses.
Just being in America alone automatically makes you have a better life than people in third world countries.
So than be thankful for what you do have and embrace your challenges, for they build your character and strength.How do you get over the fear of working hard %26amp; just losing what you work for?
By getting rid of doership.
im afraid thats how life works the rich get richer and the poor get poorer im in a similar position, trustin God and he will pull u through, leave it all to him to handle, prayer!
Why do they persist in lumping people together?
Okay, I know that Abortion and Welfare are big issues for the the Right. But you need to stop lumping people together.
Not all people on welfare are lazy. I know many people who are going through a rough time and have kids to raise. Without welfare, I'd hate to think about what would happen to them and their children.
Not all women who get an abortion do so because they just don't want to care for a kid. A woman I work with was raped and became pregnant-on top of that-she was told that if she delivered the baby, there was a high chance both her and her baby would not survive-do you know what? She was a staunch anti-abortionist-she was going to keep the baby despite how she became pregnant. She went through with the procedure to save her own life.
Besides-what is worse-feeding evil? Or starving good?
First-let's look at the possibilities of no welfare.
1. The lazy people who live off the system will not be rewarded for doing so. Sounds good right?
2. But the hard working people who need the money will have no where to turn to.
3. If you think crime is bad now-wait until they have no way to support and feed their children. I'd rather I pay my fair share of welfare then have my house broken into wouldn't you?
So the Good and Bad alike suffer. Is it better to punish evil or help your neighbor? What would the Bible say about this?
Second, let's look at Abortion being outlawed.
1. Those who are lazy and don't want to take care of their kids will still try to get an abortion, and may die in the process. Even if they don't, do you think that child will grow up in a loving enviornment? After all, the parents are lazy, and didn't want him or her in the first place.
2. Those who need an abortion for health reasons will risk it as well. With high risks such as accidental infertilization or even death, they will still risk it if the know they would die otherwise.
So outlawing abortion only serves to make it worse. Remember that Prohibition lead the rise of Organized Crime in the United States. There will be a black market of quaks giving abortions to desperate women. I don't know about you, but I'd rather they have one done by a professional in a hospital.
So stop lumping all of them together. It's more important to help the good than to punish the bad. It's that simple.
They are living, breathing people just like you and I. They each have their reasons for their sitations-deserved or not.
What sickens me the most is that many of these people who lump them all together claim to be Christians, yet violate most of the Bible to uphold a few verses. How many more verses talk of helping others as compared to punishing the wicked?
So why do you keep lumping them all together? Do you realize that you are cutting off necessary help for those that need it just to punish the ones that don't?
Please, can someone explain this to me?Why do they persist in lumping people together?
I totally agree with you. It seems people are so angry about the welfare fraud, they are willing to cut off those desperate for the help. Instead of finding answers to eliminate more of the fraud cases, they will just cut off funding for everyone. Not only women with children, but MANY seniors and those families that live in areas that have been hit hard by the economic crisis - no jobs, home foreclosures, 401K savings gone under, no health insurance without a job or funds to pay for it, etc.
And abortion was determined to be legal by our Supreme Court. It is not mandatory - every woman has her own choice in the matter. Yet there are many that feel they need to make sure we do not make the wrong choice for ourselves and overturn Roe v Wade - they don't care about OUR religious beliefs, only theirs.
My Bible preaches compassion and comfort to those that need it, regardless of how they got there (judgement is reserved for God). It teaches that those with the ability also have the obligation to take care of those less fortunate... I guess many people have a Bible that is all about themselves and teaches a total disregard for the rest of God's people.Why do they persist in lumping people together?
I can't explain it to you since I totally agree with everything that you said! I wanted to make sure you weren't only attacked by the right wing but supported by those of us who believe in the same things.
You just managed to lump people together yourself.
What I don't understand is how one can suggest to outlaw abortions AND end welfare.
If deprived, unwanted babies are born, SOMEONE has to take care ot them.
wow great question.
You're right. People are going to keep doing what they want, so to illegalize abortion would just make more criminals. I have the same theory with drugs. The reason there are so many crimes related to them is because they're illegal. How many crimes are based on the ideal that drugs are illegal? If they were legal, a lot of criminals would lose business (gangs that sell them and transport them, people who steal for them, kill for them, etc).
Same thing you were saying about abortion. People will still perfrom them, and people will still get them. Instead of it being in a clean sterile enviroment, they'll be in a back alley basement with a coat hanger and a bottle of gin. So not only will a woman risk her life to have an abortion, she could end up in jail afterwards. I had a friend who used to do every drug under the sun. She found out she was pregnant and decided to have an abortion. Her mom was furious, but realized my friend was right when she told her mom about using crystal meth only a week prior. No way was she going to bring a baby into the world that had already been poisioned so much.
You're point on Welfare is right on as well. If every lazy person on welfare suddenly didn't have it, they'd find an easy way to get cash without working. Crime would increase exponentially.
I feel that welfare programs should be in place but if there is someone receiving benefits and not working they should be required to attend a Technical School or training program to make them employable. Yes the Government will have to pay for their training but after they finish and are employed they should have to pay back the tuition. Just like a person with student loans. Also on the question of abortion, It seems that you want it to be the women's choice to have one or not...ok It is my choice to have an opinion as to whether I feel abortion is right or not. I got pregnant at the age of 18 and was unmarried at the time. I hate to think what I would be today without my son.
Abortion - I don't personally support it but I don't think we should make it illegal either
Welfare - I hear what you're saying but it needs reform, a lot of reform. I'm sick and tired of going grocery shopping on a budget with my list and sticking to my budget and list and even having to fore go things sometimes and then get in line behind someone with an overflowing cart that includes name brand groceries, convenience foods and a lot more meat than the hamburger %26amp; chicken I have to just to realize their using an EBT card and using mine and your tax dollars to eat better than us. IT';S BS!!
Not all people on welfare are lazy. I know many people who are going through a rough time and have kids to raise. Without welfare, I'd hate to think about what would happen to them and their children.
Not all women who get an abortion do so because they just don't want to care for a kid. A woman I work with was raped and became pregnant-on top of that-she was told that if she delivered the baby, there was a high chance both her and her baby would not survive-do you know what? She was a staunch anti-abortionist-she was going to keep the baby despite how she became pregnant. She went through with the procedure to save her own life.
Besides-what is worse-feeding evil? Or starving good?
First-let's look at the possibilities of no welfare.
1. The lazy people who live off the system will not be rewarded for doing so. Sounds good right?
2. But the hard working people who need the money will have no where to turn to.
3. If you think crime is bad now-wait until they have no way to support and feed their children. I'd rather I pay my fair share of welfare then have my house broken into wouldn't you?
So the Good and Bad alike suffer. Is it better to punish evil or help your neighbor? What would the Bible say about this?
Second, let's look at Abortion being outlawed.
1. Those who are lazy and don't want to take care of their kids will still try to get an abortion, and may die in the process. Even if they don't, do you think that child will grow up in a loving enviornment? After all, the parents are lazy, and didn't want him or her in the first place.
2. Those who need an abortion for health reasons will risk it as well. With high risks such as accidental infertilization or even death, they will still risk it if the know they would die otherwise.
So outlawing abortion only serves to make it worse. Remember that Prohibition lead the rise of Organized Crime in the United States. There will be a black market of quaks giving abortions to desperate women. I don't know about you, but I'd rather they have one done by a professional in a hospital.
So stop lumping all of them together. It's more important to help the good than to punish the bad. It's that simple.
They are living, breathing people just like you and I. They each have their reasons for their sitations-deserved or not.
What sickens me the most is that many of these people who lump them all together claim to be Christians, yet violate most of the Bible to uphold a few verses. How many more verses talk of helping others as compared to punishing the wicked?
So why do you keep lumping them all together? Do you realize that you are cutting off necessary help for those that need it just to punish the ones that don't?
Please, can someone explain this to me?Why do they persist in lumping people together?
I totally agree with you. It seems people are so angry about the welfare fraud, they are willing to cut off those desperate for the help. Instead of finding answers to eliminate more of the fraud cases, they will just cut off funding for everyone. Not only women with children, but MANY seniors and those families that live in areas that have been hit hard by the economic crisis - no jobs, home foreclosures, 401K savings gone under, no health insurance without a job or funds to pay for it, etc.
And abortion was determined to be legal by our Supreme Court. It is not mandatory - every woman has her own choice in the matter. Yet there are many that feel they need to make sure we do not make the wrong choice for ourselves and overturn Roe v Wade - they don't care about OUR religious beliefs, only theirs.
My Bible preaches compassion and comfort to those that need it, regardless of how they got there (judgement is reserved for God). It teaches that those with the ability also have the obligation to take care of those less fortunate... I guess many people have a Bible that is all about themselves and teaches a total disregard for the rest of God's people.Why do they persist in lumping people together?
I can't explain it to you since I totally agree with everything that you said! I wanted to make sure you weren't only attacked by the right wing but supported by those of us who believe in the same things.
You just managed to lump people together yourself.
What I don't understand is how one can suggest to outlaw abortions AND end welfare.
If deprived, unwanted babies are born, SOMEONE has to take care ot them.
wow great question.
You're right. People are going to keep doing what they want, so to illegalize abortion would just make more criminals. I have the same theory with drugs. The reason there are so many crimes related to them is because they're illegal. How many crimes are based on the ideal that drugs are illegal? If they were legal, a lot of criminals would lose business (gangs that sell them and transport them, people who steal for them, kill for them, etc).
Same thing you were saying about abortion. People will still perfrom them, and people will still get them. Instead of it being in a clean sterile enviroment, they'll be in a back alley basement with a coat hanger and a bottle of gin. So not only will a woman risk her life to have an abortion, she could end up in jail afterwards. I had a friend who used to do every drug under the sun. She found out she was pregnant and decided to have an abortion. Her mom was furious, but realized my friend was right when she told her mom about using crystal meth only a week prior. No way was she going to bring a baby into the world that had already been poisioned so much.
You're point on Welfare is right on as well. If every lazy person on welfare suddenly didn't have it, they'd find an easy way to get cash without working. Crime would increase exponentially.
I feel that welfare programs should be in place but if there is someone receiving benefits and not working they should be required to attend a Technical School or training program to make them employable. Yes the Government will have to pay for their training but after they finish and are employed they should have to pay back the tuition. Just like a person with student loans. Also on the question of abortion, It seems that you want it to be the women's choice to have one or not...ok It is my choice to have an opinion as to whether I feel abortion is right or not. I got pregnant at the age of 18 and was unmarried at the time. I hate to think what I would be today without my son.
Abortion - I don't personally support it but I don't think we should make it illegal either
Welfare - I hear what you're saying but it needs reform, a lot of reform. I'm sick and tired of going grocery shopping on a budget with my list and sticking to my budget and list and even having to fore go things sometimes and then get in line behind someone with an overflowing cart that includes name brand groceries, convenience foods and a lot more meat than the hamburger %26amp; chicken I have to just to realize their using an EBT card and using mine and your tax dollars to eat better than us. IT';S BS!!
Do people work crappy jobs because they have no choice or because they are fine with it?
First of all I've been recently thinking about the following: do all (or most) people achieve in life to some degree what they've always wanted? For example if someone REALLY always wanted to work as a truck driver or maybe a police officer, would they most of the time achieve what they wanted? Or are most people stuck doing something they don't really like, just because they have no choice? I am just trying to understand how can people work so many crappy or boring jobs out there, is it because they are fine with it? Or is it just a temp job for them till they find a career they are striving to get into? Or is it because they have no other choice?Do people work crappy jobs because they have no choice or because they are fine with it?
They ALWAYS have a choice.
Usually it's just too much trouble / hassle to go through ... all the hoops one has to jump through to prove yourself ';worthy'; ... employers usually aren't willing to 'settle' for the best they can get, or someone they have to invest in, they're looking for a 'perfect fit'
...and as Smails said, ';the world needs ditch diggers, too';
They ALWAYS have a choice.
Usually it's just too much trouble / hassle to go through ... all the hoops one has to jump through to prove yourself ';worthy'; ... employers usually aren't willing to 'settle' for the best they can get, or someone they have to invest in, they're looking for a 'perfect fit'
...and as Smails said, ';the world needs ditch diggers, too';
What exactly do homophobes think gay people DO?
I recently saw this documentary where a really conservative guy said there were two Americas - gays and working people. I'm guessing he's lumping liberals, artists, and maybe even white collar workers in with ';gays.'; But a few months back, I read this thing about a homophobic guy who went to live with a gay guy in San Francisco for a month for this TV show. When he got back home, his dad asked, ';What do they do for money?'; and was genuinely surprised to hear that - yes - gay people have JOBS!
This surprises me, since I always thought that careers like interior design, fashion design, work in theatre and the arts, and so on, were stereotyped as gay careers. I figured everybody knew of the stereotype, and that homophobes in particular believed it. But now I'm not so sure. I live inside a gay-friendly liberal bubble, so I have to ask: do homophobes think gay people don't work? And so expand on that, how do they think gay people live in general? I mean, I've heard the stereotypes about partying every night, having sex with lots of different people, doing drugs, what have you, but is there more to it?What exactly do homophobes think gay people DO?
Lol! You mean we don't all live off the state or a sugar mama or dad! Darn, I thought I was getting a free ride here! J/K
Hard working bisexual lab rat!What exactly do homophobes think gay people DO?
Actually, I think the problem is they haven't really thought about it, they just criticize. Somewhat like those who think that all Atheists are evil satan worshiping scum. Thy really don't know what they are on about, they have their heads so far up their backsides they can't actually see what they are complaining about.
why do you all worry so much about the opinions of the ignorant.
I agree w/ PDeavans 'cause there is really no reason to worry about what people who have there noses buried in a bible think about us 'cause we can't change there minds for them all that we can do is help them turn the pages.
The gays work most definitely and some are very successful in corporate America as well as fashion, the arts (ie. theatre) and that sort of thing. I dont think homophobic people assume gays dont work many of them have very lavish lifestyles actually and make good money on average I have read somewhere.
People are ignorant and they don't understand about other people who live different lives than them and so they judge them for not living the way they want them to but screw that ';i'm gay'; and i will live the way i want.
I am gay and I grew up in a very conservative area of the country - let's just call it the Southeast United States lol - and I can certainly understand these sentiments; but frankly I abhor hate - whether its from the religious homophobes on the right or the liberal gay activists on the left.
You can't denounce hatred and participate in it at the same time - like Sean Penn did in his acceptance speech for ';Milk'; last night.
I think a lot of homophobes are not able to seriously sit down and rationalize their hatred toward homosexuals. Like with a lot of ';straight'; guys, they always just say things like they think its gross or not natural or whatever. Okay thats fine, but thats a personal opinion. Like I dont want to watch extremely obese people having sex so you know what? I dont. Nor do I think about it or imagine every time I meet someone who is obese.
And thats the other thing. Its not all about the sex yet thats what they seem to concentrate on so much. Like these body parts dont fit with those. You have got to be kidding me. There are so many exceptions to that rule in the hetero world. Just face facts, some people simply like to try to suppress others cause it makes them feel more powerful, superior, ';normal';.
i know it might sound weird but i'll say it anyways. homophobes say gay people is wrong because the bible said so. christians (weird people) they also said boy sex with boy, they can't take a dump and die. that makes me mad but they can't judge us by the way we are. we don't hold in dump and die. they just say things so they're right and we're wrong.
I wonder at the ignorance of people, and you have just illustrated a new low for me.
As a gay man, I worked hard all my life, and although now semi-retired, I still work up to 17 hours a day.
';What exactly do homophobes think gay people DO?';
All the sordid things THEY would do if they could just get over the guilt...
This surprises me, since I always thought that careers like interior design, fashion design, work in theatre and the arts, and so on, were stereotyped as gay careers. I figured everybody knew of the stereotype, and that homophobes in particular believed it. But now I'm not so sure. I live inside a gay-friendly liberal bubble, so I have to ask: do homophobes think gay people don't work? And so expand on that, how do they think gay people live in general? I mean, I've heard the stereotypes about partying every night, having sex with lots of different people, doing drugs, what have you, but is there more to it?What exactly do homophobes think gay people DO?
Lol! You mean we don't all live off the state or a sugar mama or dad! Darn, I thought I was getting a free ride here! J/K
Hard working bisexual lab rat!What exactly do homophobes think gay people DO?
Actually, I think the problem is they haven't really thought about it, they just criticize. Somewhat like those who think that all Atheists are evil satan worshiping scum. Thy really don't know what they are on about, they have their heads so far up their backsides they can't actually see what they are complaining about.
why do you all worry so much about the opinions of the ignorant.
I agree w/ PDeavans 'cause there is really no reason to worry about what people who have there noses buried in a bible think about us 'cause we can't change there minds for them all that we can do is help them turn the pages.
The gays work most definitely and some are very successful in corporate America as well as fashion, the arts (ie. theatre) and that sort of thing. I dont think homophobic people assume gays dont work many of them have very lavish lifestyles actually and make good money on average I have read somewhere.
People are ignorant and they don't understand about other people who live different lives than them and so they judge them for not living the way they want them to but screw that ';i'm gay'; and i will live the way i want.
I am gay and I grew up in a very conservative area of the country - let's just call it the Southeast United States lol - and I can certainly understand these sentiments; but frankly I abhor hate - whether its from the religious homophobes on the right or the liberal gay activists on the left.
You can't denounce hatred and participate in it at the same time - like Sean Penn did in his acceptance speech for ';Milk'; last night.
I think a lot of homophobes are not able to seriously sit down and rationalize their hatred toward homosexuals. Like with a lot of ';straight'; guys, they always just say things like they think its gross or not natural or whatever. Okay thats fine, but thats a personal opinion. Like I dont want to watch extremely obese people having sex so you know what? I dont. Nor do I think about it or imagine every time I meet someone who is obese.
And thats the other thing. Its not all about the sex yet thats what they seem to concentrate on so much. Like these body parts dont fit with those. You have got to be kidding me. There are so many exceptions to that rule in the hetero world. Just face facts, some people simply like to try to suppress others cause it makes them feel more powerful, superior, ';normal';.
i know it might sound weird but i'll say it anyways. homophobes say gay people is wrong because the bible said so. christians (weird people) they also said boy sex with boy, they can't take a dump and die. that makes me mad but they can't judge us by the way we are. we don't hold in dump and die. they just say things so they're right and we're wrong.
I wonder at the ignorance of people, and you have just illustrated a new low for me.
As a gay man, I worked hard all my life, and although now semi-retired, I still work up to 17 hours a day.
';What exactly do homophobes think gay people DO?';
All the sordid things THEY would do if they could just get over the guilt...
Why do people think if you like sex you're acting black?
I dont know why but people tell me I act like a black person. I wear preppy clothes but I like to get drunk hang out and have sex as much as possible screw it you only live once. They say I am a disgrace because I am acting black. I said well I am an atheist and dont need to live to your moral code that you have decided to live with. These are mostly work people. At work I am completely professional, on time and work harder then anyone but I can sense a lot of hatred when ever I walk into a room. They say they treat me crappy so I will change, but I am not too concerned about their person opionons and I feel that they should maintain a more professional working enviornment where they dont allow personal feelings to affect them. But what I dont understand is how does enjoying hanging out on the weekends getting wasted in sweats makes me black.Why do people think if you like sex you're acting black?
Yeah your mom fat cock stuck in her ***Why do people think if you like sex you're acting black?
stop making **** up.
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i thought it was indians cause in jamaica there is a saying that indians have white liver... ahahahahahaa.
but anyway this is a dumb question and anybody who asks these is an ignorant idiot everybody loves sex...and if you don't you need to see a doctor..
dude i never heard this in my life u making this up
i dont know? but ive heard this aswell, its just another stereotype that people say blacks are more addicted to sex than others
god, seriously? only black people like sex now? well, if that's true it's only a matter of time until the other races go extinct and blacks have the whole planet to themselves, right? i can't wait. seriously, i'm very excited.
It's all just a stupid, ignorant stereotype. How does liking sex automatically means you are acting ';black?'; People from all races like sex.
Yeah your mom fat cock stuck in her ***Why do people think if you like sex you're acting black?
stop making **** up.
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i thought it was indians cause in jamaica there is a saying that indians have white liver... ahahahahahaa.
but anyway this is a dumb question and anybody who asks these is an ignorant idiot everybody loves sex...and if you don't you need to see a doctor..
dude i never heard this in my life u making this up
i dont know? but ive heard this aswell, its just another stereotype that people say blacks are more addicted to sex than others
god, seriously? only black people like sex now? well, if that's true it's only a matter of time until the other races go extinct and blacks have the whole planet to themselves, right? i can't wait. seriously, i'm very excited.
It's all just a stupid, ignorant stereotype. How does liking sex automatically means you are acting ';black?'; People from all races like sex.
Please help. Irish people with GENUINE financial issues?
My partner is unfortunately out of work for 15 months. Do not judge please..he works in a specialist area, has worked 25yrs and paid taxes and does not want to be unemployed. Its not just a case of taking any job and its not snobbery, he just wont get it in a supermarket with his experience. The reason we cannot move for him to get work is because i'm the only child of two sick parents %26amp; a sick sibling (all in care) and i want to be near them. I work full time and take home 530 euro p.w after tax. We pay 900 euro rent. Again dont judge us for renting, we just did not want to end up with a huge mortgage we could not pay off if one of us was made redundant so we decided to stay renting. We are co habiting this past 4 years. But....we do not have Joint accounts or anything like that. Everything is split down the middle. My partner received the money you get from if you have paid taxes until last november. Then it was cut and he was means tested. It was then decided by welfare that i pay all the bills and that hes not entitled to any benefit. Just because i live with him. He mentioned me as partner and had to show my payslip. HOwever things have been bad since xmas and we split last January and he has since moved to his sisters house, not with me. The welfare has decided that he is not entitled to any money based on MY INCOME. but at the moment we are on a break. How will this work out now? Its just a break, it doesnt mean we wont get back together. Now i'm strangled paying rent on a full house but i refuse to move, i'm not sharing with strangers, i'm 34yr old woman with too much stress in mylife already adn we are decent hard working peoplePlease help. Irish people with GENUINE financial issues?
**sigh**Please help. Irish people with GENUINE financial issues?
If you have split with your partner and he has moved out - he must go to Appeals at the welfare. If you and he are complicating matters by 'being together but not together' then you are going to come up against a brick wall.
Not sure about Ireland but in England you could get housing advice from SHELTER.
Consider moving to a smaller place and getting in a lodger - I had a great one for about a year and he became part of the family. Sometimes we have to bite the bullet and it dosn't always turn out as bad as we had imagined.
Good luckcanure place key on laptops
**sigh**Please help. Irish people with GENUINE financial issues?
If you have split with your partner and he has moved out - he must go to Appeals at the welfare. If you and he are complicating matters by 'being together but not together' then you are going to come up against a brick wall.
Not sure about Ireland but in England you could get housing advice from SHELTER.
Consider moving to a smaller place and getting in a lodger - I had a great one for about a year and he became part of the family. Sometimes we have to bite the bullet and it dosn't always turn out as bad as we had imagined.
Good luck
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